10 Tips to Connect, Relate & Communicate With People If You Want to Find Romance, Meet New Friends & Develop A Love Connection Try These Underused Yet Proven Techniques
1. Smile. Smile at lots of people. Smile at the hostess- the bar staff- other customers… anyone you come in contact with. Be friendly- approachable- and stand out of the crowd
2. Get in a HABIT of chatting with others. Talk to people sitting by you. Start with small chit chat. Simply get in the habit of conversing with all kinds of people (attractive or not) so you get better at striking up a conversation… that’s where it ALL starts
3. Ask questions about them- whoever is near you. Become interesting by being INTERESTED!!! People will notice YOU
4. Use fun phrases and descriptive language. Invest in an Urban Dictionary or Watch MTV to learn how to use cool – Hip words which will make you more interesting
5. Be laid back & Go With The Flow…. This makes people want to be with you. Life is stressful for many people- you appearing as being “laid back” -is very attractive!
6. Update your wardrobe and get a makeover if you need one. A fresh haircut, a manicure, an updated outfit & shoes can speak volumes. Also consider getting your teeth whitened, getting contact lenses and even Lasik to update “Your Look”. THE REALITY IS: We’re very visual-
7. Don’t brag about yourself or tell “fluffy” stories. Be enthusiastic about hearing other people’s stories. Become fascinating by being fascinated about others
8. Wear one fashion accessory or item of interest that the other person may ask you about. (A hat, jewelry, device, a gadget, etc). Have a brief, but good story to tell about it (besides the price)
9. “GET A LIFE”. Travel, go places, try the new restaurants in town, throw parties, and know what’s Happening in and out of town…. This attracts people- they will want to be part of your Cool Life
10. Don’t be cheap! Send several people a complimentary cocktail of their choice- on You. Don’t single out one or two attractive Prospects. Be generous! It will set you apart by far ~ and the ROI is very good (I promise). I’ve seen it work every time
Dianne Sikel
602-908-4178
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